It’s easy to get caught up in a spiral when attending a prestigious university, but sometimes it’s important to be able to stop and relax.
I’m currently typing this from the comfort of my home in Boston. It’s May, junior year has finally wrapped up, my final projects and thesis pre-proposals are done, and I have an aerospace internship scheduled a week from now in a completely different state. While most people will view this as exciting and a great development (and trust me, it very much is) others will undoubtedly notice that things seem to be moving at a rapid pace. After all, school just ended a few days ago and now I need to start an entirely new section of my life working?
That’s the main thing I want to tackle and explore here – that it is extremely easy to get caught up constantly working and worrying about the future without taking the time to stop, rest, and reflect on what you value and what makes you truly happy. Everyone has their own hobbies that they do to keep themselves sane and I wanted to share a few of mine here with you.
If you know me or have had a conversation with me in general, you’ll know that despite me being a big techie head, I’m a very strong advocate for every person having a creative outlet in which they’re able to express themselves without restraint or concern. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as you’re able to enter your own flow state and create something that acts as a microcosm of yourself.
Well Denzel, what are your creative hobbies if you’re so interested in everyone having one?
I’m glad you asked, inquisitive reader.
If we’re talking about more outwardly expressive hobbies, I’ve been making art since I was six and would say that it is an integral part of who I am. I enjoy creating different pieces of varying mediums and bringing into the world a small piece of what my inner eye sees. Some are more abstract than others and others are more personal than some, but all act as tiny mirrors of myself that connect to a part of my life in some way, shape, or form. Not only that though, but I also listen to a vast amount of music. For me, music and art are two sides of the same coin – whenever I make art, I follow a tune in my head that guides my pen strokes. Whenever I listen to music, I envision different pieces of art and sequencing them together in a way that acts as almost a type of movie (or anime if the art is more stylistic in nature).
Of course another big creative hobby of mine is video games. Not just in the sense of playing them, but also making them. I truly believe that video games are the most significant form of entertainment/art on the planet. It is the only medium that is able to tie in multiple branches of creativity (e.g. writing, music, art direction, cinematography, [insert whatever creative outlet that is dependent on the type of video game you’re engaged in]) while also granting autonomy to the player. It is a highly interactive experience and one that is inherently meant to allow expression of creativity when being developed.
Of course these might not be the same hobbies you enjoy doing and that’s perfectly okay. Everyone is special and has their own set of interests. What matters is that you have an interest that will allow you to get lost in it without having to worry about work, or what pset is due the next week, or if you’ll get a 3.91 or 3.92 GPA at the end of the semester. They’re important for sure but they shouldn’t entirely consume your life and cause you to lose a grip on your mental health.
Here I posed with my new team to celebrate our victory in my first game of flag football. I even taught the team how to sign "K" for Kirkland House in ASL
A sign welcoming new Quincy house residents on Housing Day!
Secquoia with her mom and sister at a family weekend event!
A view with my food from my first year, eating in the famous Annenberg Hall.
My friends from my entryway and I pose for a picture together before we go kayaking!
A selfie with six of my block mates, two of which performed in this dance show!
Ana's Harvard (Friends)
A photo taken in my last class at Harvard with one of my closest friends my senior year.
A photo of myself looking at the Zanzibari waters
My blocking group and I after being dorm stormed
My room in the wonderful Stoughton Hall!
My bookshelf in my dorm!
Seniors at the Harvard Islamic Society Send Off
Dining with the Harvard Muslim community, my junior year
Seeing the Lotus Temple in Delhi, India was only one of the many great experiences I've had thanks to Harvard Model Congress
Food provided by Harvard University Dining Service Workers on Thanksgiving Day
I officially declared Sociology as my concentration this fall!
I love catching the crisp morning breeze every Saturday morning!
The sunrise on the morning of Housing Day this year.
My first cookout at Harvard was successful!
My First Harvard Yale Game
An empty room? More like a clean canvas!
A picture of a white poster with "Adams House is the Best House" written on it.
hey, what's that--a liminal space?
My one of my Floridian roommates in the snow last year looking warm in a coat and jeans!
The front of Claverly Hall on Mt. Auburn Street.
This is our entryway ready for their convocation!
A snapshot of my room in the afternoon
A picture of the Charles River overlooking Harvard's River Houses
A group of PAFs after an evening of games during orientation.
I got to take photos with my thesis (or at least the first 25 pages of it) on the steps of Widener Library!
Me and a teammate sailing the first double handed sail of the year.
Cherry Blossom outside Lowell
Here's Harpreet and I with our best friends back in high school!
Mt. Auburn Street Side of Harvard University Health Services/Smith Center
Here is a picture of my family, including my mom, brothers, grandma, uncle and aunt, and cousins.
The SEF is just one way for low-income students to receive extra support towards the cost of attendance at Harvard
trips into Boston are worth it!
Photo of side of Apley Court
My blockmates and I at Winthrop House on our Housing Day!
I have very specific playlists for every mood.
My family and I during my move in.
Here's a collage of all the outfits I'll be featuring in this blog.
Harvard Yard, where many first-year students live.
A Zoom Picture from my FYRE Family!
I miss doing reading for my English and creative writing classes on my Winthrop House dorm room!
Weld Hall, the first-year dorm where I am a PAF!
A snap of an empty Tercentenary theater as I worked on my homework
My friends and I love hanging out in the roof-top common room in Winthrop House!
I make the most of my Zoom-ed reality by taking calls outside!
Here I am teaching a government class from last summer!
The view of the Charles River from Leveret House, which is right next to Winthrop House!
My Harvard Journal Project notebook, with its (not so successful) attempt to color the Harvard logo on the front.
Selfie in the Seattle Airport.
Lowellians ready to welcome first years to our home!
Snow falling outside Wigglesworth Hall, one of 17 first-year dorms.
Veritaffle
Kirkland House Opening Days 2018
Dining in at By Chloe in Fenway