Without a guide, college remained a mystery up until I arrived at what would be my campus for the next four years. Now, halfway through, here are ten things I wish I had known as a prospective college student.
You CAN go to school out of state
Yes, I know this sounds intuitive; however, as a high school senior, I believed otherwise. As a first-generation student, I was terrified of venturing out on my own and leaving home to build a life beyond what I knew. Having never lived on my own, I was worried I lacked the power within me to succeed. So, what made me choose to study out of state?
It was the opportunity to explore somewhere new that overrode my doubts. Although I was nervous about the newness and independence awaiting me, I was ready to expand my horizons in an environment where I knew other students would be too.
So, for anyone in need of a sign on whether to apply to or attend college out of state, here it is: Do it!
Attend any event that calls your attention
Put yourself out there! For me, attending every career fair, organization fair, and social event on campus not only allowed me to explore my interests but also helped me meet new people! In fact, attending FGLI convocation during my freshman fall led me to meet one of my best friends, also known as my roommate :). This just goes to show that you never know who you'll meet, so just go!
Embrace independence
Slowly, of course! Upon arriving at Harvard, I realized that college truly marks a time for independence. Whether it's eating or studying by yourself, it’s these moments where you start to become more and more comfortable with doing things alone. If you’re used to doing everything with others--like your parents, family, or friends (as I was)--it may seem hard and scary at first. However, over time, it certainly becomes more easier and natural.
Explore your surroundings
Escape your college bubble. As the semester progresses, it’s easy to feel confined to your dorm room or campus as you balance assignments and classes. Nonetheless, take some time for yourself and go out! Even if it's for a few minutes, it’s the small moments that brighten your week and put a smile on your face.
Locate your lecture halls a day or two before classes start
Especially during your first semester, it’s important to know where your classes will take place. Don’t wait until the first day of class to navigate campus for the first time--spare yourself the wrong turns and confusion!
Take your first (and/or second) semester to explore your academic interests
Your first months on campus are the perfect time to explore subjects that interest you. Even if you find a course and find it isn't for you, at least you gave it a try. It’s better to discover your likes and dislikes early on than to spend the rest of your college career wondering, “What if I had tried __?”
Make use of academic resources
It's okay to admit you need help or have questions! Explore the resources offered on campus to ensure your well-being and success in all aspects of your college life. A part of ensuring your success is advocating for yourself.
Everyone's work-life balance looks different
Not everyone’s timeline or schedule will be the same. Some days, you may have more time on you hands than others. On other days, you'll be busier. Don’t feel guilty for taking a break or saying no to an outing when you need to.
Connect with upperclassmen for advice
Guidance from upperclassmen can very helpful! Whether it’s navigating which courses best suit your interests, discovering study spots on campus, or exploring opportunities, I have certainly gained lots of insight and advice from my peers.
Use a planner (shoutout to Google Calendar!)
Last but not least, use a planner. College life is busy, and writing everything out in one place can help ensure you don't forget to attend that one gathering or meeting. Writing down deadlines and blocking out time slots for tasks just makes everything so much easier!
